Seriously detachment from the outcome is not a cliche; your higher mind/subconscious knows every desire, fear, and frustration you have so don't worry about it. This technique may open many doors for you:)
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"Worry about self delusion, after you have succeeded." -Owltwelve
I was inspired today by solidus882 to do some pkwheel practice after running some errands. I got some paper, stood a pen between two books and got to it.
After some minutes of seeing it respond I decided to read the phone # on it. Kind of surprisingly it actually stopped spinning each time I looked at and read the numbers in thought.
I'd take my attention back to my "become breath" focus and it'd start spinning again .
Just looked up at it while typping this and it was spinning after proof reading the previous sentence. I'm about 9 ft away from it .
You need Samadhi to do this; it is amazing to do. It feels as if you are attacking the object from every possible side at once, you know absolutely everything there is to know about it. You become it and so there is nothing you do not know.